I think at this stage I'm the one who has the final say, as I am the one going through it. I have read/seen that some people don't announce to anyone until they've given birth, so waiting until 20 weeks doesn't seem that bad! It's starting to cause problems between us as he is fixated on this, says it feels like a lie whenever he speaks to his mum or I speak to mine. He thinks they will be very hurt/will want to support us/will be confused, and that to him is more important than my comfort and privacy. My husband really wants us to tell our Mum's and his siblings. I can't explain how I feel, I just feel a need for this to be our business for a little longer still. I am a very private person anyway about things, I don't want people to know until we know the baby is okay (or at least we know as much as we can until it's here), and this feels like a time for me and my husband to adjust to this stage of life. It was among Shakespeares most popular plays during his lifetime and, along with Hamlet, is one of his most frequently performed plays.Today, the title characters are regarded as archetypal young lovers. and maybe husband's siblings if I feel ready. Romeo and Juliet is a tragedy written by William Shakespeare early in his career about the romance between two Italian youths from feuding families. I feel a really, really strong pull to keep this private for a while yet - hopefully until after the anatomy scan. We're geographically far from our families and haven't seen them since I was around 8 weeks, so obviously not showing, and I haven't got much of a bump yet anyway. I haven't told anyone, apart from my line manager at work. Anyway, we're continuing with the pregnancy and I'm now 16 weeks. It's taken me a while to get my head round the pregnancy - it happened much faster than I was expecting for various reasons, so although we were open to getting pregnant, it has been very disorientating for me and once I actually had a positive test I wasn't sure what I wanted to do. Hi - new user here, asking for some perspective.
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